Discussing the reason we give thanks during this special holiday season. There is so much to be thankful for, a brief but powerful reason to be grateful and thankful is shared here in this post.
We are most grateful and thankful for living through a world-wide pandemic only a few short years ago (2020). Most world countries were shut down, meaning no traveling unless you were considered an essential worker. An essential worker were those who work within the healthcare industry. Doctors, nurses, and support staff were either dedicated to the role at this point or became overwhelmed and began exiting the profession. More than a few people made it through with some lingering issues while others may seldom feel the affects caused by the long lasting pandemic.
Although we are glad those days of depression, fear, isolation, loneliness, sickness, and worry seems to be a thing of the past, we must remember our loved ones that were made to give-in to what seemed to be the quickest death sentence ever. It seemed that a brief encounter with an affected person caused some people to experience instantaneous symptoms. Most people, if given an opportunity to do better, will begin to: eat better, move their body more, and embrace changes. Research and start foundations in the name of the family member or friend that touched the hearts of so many people.
Be ever so grateful that we are able to embrace the presence of love ones far and near. Each gathering we should acknowledge the love in the rooms where we spend quality time.
Mentioning those that are no longer at the table may trigger some to shed tears so be mindful of family members experiencing difficulties this season. Speak with purpose. Speak with love. Speak out with a grateful heart and a thankful mentality.
While enjoying the meal you all created together to share with family and friends, be careful to remember who is still mourning the lost of their love one. Gatherings great and small may usher in some emotions that were not shared in any previous moments. If you are brave enough to share memories, be brave enough to hold the hand of a person where your shared memory still feels new, current, or fresh.
Share fond memories. Embrace their receipes passed down from their children, family, or friend. Allow the sunshine to come through your presence in the room. Bring calm and peace into the room with you by letting go of any hurt feelings prior to engaging with family and friends. Smile and sit quietly with the person that seems to need a minute of solitude. Remember family and friends will talk when they are ready, no need to overwhelm them by saying negatives phrases like; "you should be over it by now." Some family and friends are stronger than others and will not display their feelings on their shoulders (figure of speaking).
Enjoy this holiday like there is no tomorrow. Enjoy family and friends during every gathering. If you are harboring any negative feelings kindly let them go and be on purpose when sharing love; a smile, a hug, a kind word or gesture. This holiday season, be intentional when sharing your presence.
Be loving. Be kind. Be inspired. Be mentored.
Attitude N Life
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